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Why I Don’t Need A God Fearing Man 🙊…

Why I Don’t Need A God Fearing Man 🙊…

Yep. You read that right and no there is no typo. I’ve done a lot of thinking and living and learning and I just don’t believe I have to have a God fearing man to have the type of relationship and marriage I desire. Okay, okay. As you may have guessed, there is a “but”. I don’t need a God fearing man, BUT I do need a God loving man! Is there even a difference? I believe so. My theory…

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The Self-Love Side Effect 😬

The Self-Love Side Effect 😬

Sooooo it happened! I was laying in bed, my son had allowed me to rock him to sleep, I was streaming a great series (with at least 3 seasons) and i thought to myself, “I’m hella happy single, I don’t even need a man”. 😬 Now, looking back i’m still unsure of what i meant exactly. It could have been literal. As in i was completely content with everyone in my life and a man is not a necessity for…

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3 Things Women Should Strive To Be That A Good Man Adores

3 Things Women Should Strive To Be That A Good Man Adores

You know what really grinds my gears? When people waste my time. How you spend your time is one of the most important things in life. Its something you cant get back. Unfortunately we tend to waste our own time as well when we try to be who our man wants us to be to make him happy. Doing things you wouldnt usually do. Bending your beliefs and breaking your morals. Just for it all to build up and cause…

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Are You Worth The Commitment?

Are You Worth The Commitment?

Looking back at my relationships I can honestly say each guy I dated would agree that I gave my all ( I would say that I love hard but i’m starting to think that every one either loves hard or not at all). Like many women I seen myself being a wife to whoever the lucky guy was at the moment. Even when I knew deep down we didn’t belong together, I tried to be an amazing girlfriend. What is…

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Imma Make It Do What It Do Baby!

Imma Make It Do What It Do Baby!

First things first. Did you read that title in a Jamie Foxx imitating Ray Charles voice? Did you then segue into singing the lyrics “Now baby I just want to take your freaking clothes off” from his song “Do What It Do”? Because I just did all of that plus pulled up Youtube to begin listening to his whole Unpredictable album. Which you can’t deny was the bomb dot com that one summer! But guess what, this post has absolutely nothing to…

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I Done Grow’d Up! 3 Reasons Growth Is Important

I Done Grow’d Up! 3 Reasons Growth Is Important

 Tupac said, “Change. Everybody changes. As long as you change for the better, I aint mad atcha.” Ever since i heard his voice say those words, they stuck with me. Im pretty sure every living thing in this world goes through changes, cycles or seasons where they evolve. They experience growth and become better than they were before. Some people take longer to make the internal changes than others. Lets talk about how important it is that you begin to,or…

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IN LOVE WITH BLACK LOVE

IN LOVE WITH BLACK LOVE

  Unless you’ve been under a rock (And by under a rock i mean off of social media and avoiding televisions) for the last month or so you know that theres a popular new documentary on OWN called Black Love. It’s basically married black couples reflecting on the good, bad and ugly of marriage. Talk about a master class. Of course i was at home impatiently waiting as it premiered last week and became immediately glued to the screen. This…

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THREE LESSONS IN LOVE WE CAN LEARN FROM BARACK AND MICHELLE OBAMA.

THREE LESSONS IN LOVE WE CAN LEARN FROM BARACK AND MICHELLE OBAMA.

  Well y’all, its about that time. We had eight great years with The Obamas and although many don’t want to see them go, they left us with so many memories, speeches, and examples to forever reflect on. Whether or not you agree with their politics, you can’t deny their class. Also, their love for one another is undeniable. Unknowingly teaching us how this relationship and love thing should look. They enjoy one another. How many photos have we witnessed…

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REJECTION OR REDIRECTION? IT’S UP TO YOU

REJECTION OR REDIRECTION? IT’S UP TO YOU

“AYE…. Aye ma … Baby… Lil mama… Let me holla at you… Oh you don’t hear me?” Sound Familiar? Either you’ve heard it, said it, or know a guy who does. The worst way to approach a woman preparing for her king. Speaking of kings, you know the men seeking a wife who wouldn’t dare get a womans attention with cat calls, this blog is for you! I know many of you aren’t fans of being the one who has…

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3 WAYS TO GET CLOSER TO THE RING IN 2017

3 WAYS TO GET CLOSER TO THE RING IN 2017

With about a week left in 2016 many people are ready to throw away old habits and start a new when the ball drops. Some are tired of being out of breath when walking up a flight of stairs so theyre signing up for a fitness bootcamp. Others are tired of struggling financially so they are downloading apps to budget better and setting goals to do more overtime or put in extra hours in their business. And then there are…

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